My best friend is now dating my ex-boyfriend. Recently, I (22/f) found out that one of my best friends (21/f) had been dating my ex (22/m) behind my back for a good while. She told me the truth only after they. Yes, you may as many people tend to get completely wrapped up in your own feelings and give the middle finger to anyone who tries to tell you otherwise, but if one of your besties decided to start humping your ex, would you be supportive or forgiving?
Perhaps one of the most important rules of friend code is you don ' t date your friends ' exes. Were they going on behind your back when you were actually together? I actually did have a best friend who MARRIED my ex-boyfriend. The world is divided into two groups of people: those who think it's OK to date a friend's ex and those who believe it's completely off-limits.
In the passenger seat was my high school boyfriend. I split up with my ex a year ago and quickly started dating. I met someone nice, but within weeks I discovered that my ex and my best friend had. What do I do?
Sometimes when you develop feelings they happen to be for your friend's ex. But, pursuing these feelings might not always be worth it. Some friends might be cool with you dating their ex, but other friends may feel it's crossing the line. Here are some potential red flags to consider if you're trying to decide whether or not dating someone your friend has dated is a good idea.
How to Be Assertive with Women. After I got back my ex's feelings changed and she decided she needed to be single. Because I thought she was a good person, I was civil.
Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. it simply doesn't happen, because you both agree it's not a good move. However, when you're in different camps, and a friend dates your ex (or vice versa).
I loaded up the back of my dad's Prius with a hamper full of clothes, my ex and friend were dating, I cried for hours on my best friend's couch.
The sheer concept of seeing one of my mates with an ex is something that'd affect me Not only is that his best friend, but he massively betrayed him. Dating their ex undermines the latter two, bringing a sense of betrayal I.